Carlos Mendez isn’t just our partner—he’s the soul behind our mezcal. He opens up about growing up gay in rural Mexico, redefining tradition, and building a brand that reflects his values. This is about more than spirits. It’s about courage, culture, and creating change.
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Why does the trash matter more than sex? Why do new moms feel like they’re drowning—and new dads feel helpless? And is “mom brain” actually… genius? Erin and Abe go deep with psychologist Dr. Nicole Pensak on what nobody tells you about postpartum life—and how couples can stay close through the chaos.
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This AMA-style episode tackles the hard stuff in relationships—straight from your DMs. We get into:
• How to manage parenting with completely different styles
• When to talk vs. when to take space during a fight
• Why some cheating might be forgivable—and some isn’t
• Balancing work, marriage, and four kids without losing it
• Whether attraction can grow if it’s not there on day one
• The real cost of divorce vs. investing in your relationship
• Prioritizing alone time and protecting your sanity as a couple
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It’s the final countdown—Erin’s 38 weeks pregnant, wildly introspective, low-key enraged at Abe (for breathing), and more powerful than ever. The couple unpacks everything: Pitocin horror stories, why working out while pregnant is underrated, what moms actually want from their partners, and how pregnancy has Erin firing on all cylinders creatively. It’s vulnerable, hilarious, and full of truth bombs about rest, resentment, rituals—and the sexiest thing a partner can do in the third trimester. (Hint: it’s not foreplay.)
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Amanda Hirsch of Not Skinny But Not Fat joins Erin and Abe for a wildly honest, laugh-out-loud conversation covering cancel culture, work and marriage dynamics, and why the internet is obsessed with tearing women down. From wrestling with postpartum identity to wondering whether you’d know if your baby wasn’t cute, no topic is off-limits. Amanda opens up about her path from meme queen to media powerhouse, how she handles online hate, and why “independence” might be overrated in modern relationships.
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I'm Whitney Port, and a lot has happened since you last saw me on The Hills. For starters, I'm a mom, I got married to the love of my life, Timmy, I run a business outside of fashion - it's time we finally catch up. There are so many facets that make up my life: relationships, parenthood, entrepreneurship, beauty, fashion, health, wellness and much more. Join me each week as we meet and discuss all these topics and more with trusted experts and favorite people on earth. Hopefully, we can embark on this new journey together with openness, honesty and a little bit of Whit.
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Early dating is a strategy—and if you don’t have one, you’re winging it. Erin and Abe get into the game: when to text, when to wait, and when to move on. They talk first dates, second dates, attraction, sex, and the subtle power dynamics that play out along the way. Also in this episode: Erin’s cookbook announcement, her billboard debut in Times Square, Met Gala afterparties, and what it’s really like trying to date your spouse while raising four kids.
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